When I was 13, just getting into manhood, I always felt a strange pleasure towards strangling, none of my friends ever expressed such a weird lustful guilt but I usually saw sites of girls getting choked or strangled and the best feeling would take over even during the worst teenage times.
It was my last junior year, the finals were terrible and I was never a good student, and suddenly I see the best site that would remain carved inside my brain 15 years later, every fantasy and moment of pleasure are based on this site, it was a girl dragging another hot blonde with a long neck by the throat and I remember watching it and even a friend asked me why are you starring like that and joked ” are you possesed” and I felt I was, I desperately wanted to personally do this and see if reality feels as good as the fantasy!
Fast forward, 10 yrs and I have just graduated, one of the girls in my class has the longest thickest neck my eyes have ever seen, I love thick necks! And we were walking down the beach and I without thinking grabbed her throat and kind of acted the scene that I have witnessed, she didn’t mind or even give me a weird look, we just walked down the beach with my hands around her neck for 30 minutes, occasionally tightning my grip and she just made this helium scream which was delicious! We were wearing thick clothes because it was winter and I believe I came about 6 times (she doesn’t know I am sexually attracted to it and i hope she never knows).
I fell in love when the ride was over but I had to end my desire there and not push my luck for a second time!
Author: Cansistorn
I had asphyxia fantasies dating back to my early childhood. I remember being a very little kid at my grandmother’s house, and everybody was in the other room getting ready to eat. They had some random soap opera on, and I didn’t know where the remote was (why won’t it turn itself?). I was suddenly drawn to it when I saw a man dragging a woman by the throat, choking the shit out of her. Afterwards, he left, and she grasped her sore throat, staring in the mirror, breathless. Yup. I was aroused.
When I was four or five, I had a female friend that I often choked when we play wrestled. As she said years later, that was my “weapon for her.” I also wrote a story in this blog about her.
I’ve never been the type of person that appeared to be an asphyxiaphiliac. I can please a girl easily without the choking, but it’s much better with it. I like rough, no holds barred, type of sex, and girls like it, too.
In my opinion, love of choking chicks begins at a very young age. I believe that it tends to be a combination of two fetishes: BDSM and neck fetish. We like to strangle or choke or hang because we like to punish what we love: Necks.
In my experience, asphyxia lovers tend to be normal people with unusual fetishes. I can say this observing myself. I would never really hurt a woman, let alone kill. I have plenty of friends, and too many chicks like me.
By exploring our fantasies through role play (and chokedchicks.com), we learn that we were born with powerful gifts. Name one girl that came while she was being asphyxiated and didn’t have a pretty damned good orgasm. We know what we’re doing.
I love Cansistorn’s post because it shows us that these urges start at an early age. I firmly believe that love of asphyxia, as well as numerous paraphilias, are chemical and genetic issues.
This post also shows that our behavior is sexually acceptable. Cansistorn choked his girl for hours without creeping her out. Choking during sex, especially rough sex, is extremely common, which is why I include some rough sex content on this site. We just take it to the next level.
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Cansistorn,
You grabbed this girl’s throat out of no where and started choking her for 30 minutes. Then you say, “I had to let my desire end there and not push my luck a second time.”
This is a message to everybody, because I know most people tend to do this. You can’t go through life afraid to make your fantasies reality. You can’t be afraid to ask, because then it will never happen.
What would I have done, you ask?
First, I would incorporate asphyxia into the sexual conversation. During sex talk, you’ll find plenty of connections you can make. Introduce the idea by drawing a parallel between sex and asphyxia.
Next, I would “sell” her on the benefits of asphyxia, without coming off as creepy or needy.
If she reacts positively about it, it shouldn’t be too hard to convert her to a choked chick next time you’re alone with her. If she reacts negatively, you know, immediately, that she’s not worth your time.
“What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done in bed.”
(Share stories, but NOTHING that sounds perverted. DO NOT MENTION ASPHYXIA at this point.)
“Have you ever heard of erotic asphyxia? A lot of women have men (choke / strangle / hang / drown / etc.) them during sex to heighten the orgasm. They say it makes sex a lot better.”
(If she reacts negatively, lose the chick. If she reacts positively, choke the chick.
I’m here to help like minded people explore these fantasies, but wouldn’t you much rather do it in real life? Learn how to exude confidence and become attractive. Get girls to do what you want to do. Choking chicks is not perverted. Everybody knows what erotic asphyxia is. Find a willing participant, and play safe.
You may be wondering, “How do I find a choked chick?”
Online? I wouldn’t recommend it. What you see is never what you get. Jerk off online; meet choked chicks in person.
Clubs? It’s always a good place to find freaks, but the environment makes it difficult because women always have their defenses up. If you know the art of attraction, you can find a choked chick, or a girl you can turn into a choked chick, every single night.
Public settings? This is generally the easiest place to pick up women. Learn how to gauge a woman’s freakiness. We want women that are wild and exotic in bed, but also have a “good girl” reputation. Look out for the closet freaks. Get girls with no STD’s that let you choke them till they scream.
Never, ever, force a girl to play the breath control game. Always set the rules before playing. People keep asking me to chat online about asphyxiation fantasies. I don’t need any more of those than I already have. If you want to talk about making your fantasy reality, hit up the guestbook, and I’ll do everything I can to help.
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